Sunday, March 29, 2009

song for a fifth child

Mother, O Mother, come shake out your cloth,
Empty the dustpan, poison the moth,
Hang out the washing, make up the bed,
Sew on a button and butter the bread.
Where is the mother whose house is so shocking?
She’s up in the nursery, blissfully rocking.

Oh, I’ve grown as shiftless as Little Boy Blue,
Lullabye, rockabye, lullabye loo.
Dishes are waiting and bills are past due
Pat-a-cake, darling, and peek, peekaboo

The shopping’s not done and there’s nothing for stew
And out in the yard there’s a hullabaloo
But I’m playing Kanga and this is my Roo
Look! Aren’t his eyes the most wonderful hue?
Lullabye, rockaby lullabye loo.

The cleaning and scrubbing can wait till tomorrow
But children grow up as I’ve learned to my sorrow.
So quiet down cobwebs; Dust go to sleep!
I’m rocking my baby and babies don’t keep.


~Ruth Hulburt Hamilton, 1958

i'd heard the end of this poem before, but i have just fallen in love with the whole poem. i feel like i'm living in that house right now, and i just need to remember that babies do not keep. they become two. and two year olds do not keep. they become three. and three year olds do not keep, either. and well, that's as far as i've gotten so far. but i'm pretty sure he's not gonna stay three for very much longer. so i think i'm gonna find a print of this poem and hang it in my kitchen. you know, the one with the clean floor!?

me in a little box

I took the 43 Things Personality Quiz and found out I'm an
Organized Extroverted Self-Improver
organized might be stretching it a bit, but the rest is spot-on. take the short quiz and lemme know what box they put you in!

Friday, March 27, 2009

amelia is 2 months old!




our growing girl weighs 13 lbs, 8 oz. and is sleeping 9-10 hours at night!!! (which is the most important statistic for this momma!) amelia is incredibly laidback and easygoing. she currently loves watching ceiling fans and having her diaper changed. both of those will make this girl SMILE! she also appreciates the safe haven of her quiet crib. i can see a look of happiness and relief on her face almost everytime i lay her down... as if to say, "whew! i survived another hour out there with those kids!" we continue to praise God for this precious child. happy two months, amelia lynn!

Saturday, March 21, 2009

back to the beach!


we celebrated the beginning of spring this week with our first trip back to the beach! and as you can see, the kids were more than excited. :) you might be saying, "what were you thinking, emily...going to the beach with three small children, one being a newborn?! are you crazy!?" yeah, there was a point when i was packing up all the beach supplies that i was thinking the same thing. :) but we were going with karina and aunt kristie, who has 10 arms. really, she is amazingly helpful, even with a two year old! plus i figured it'd be easier to hit the beach now while amelia is immobile and still sleeps most of the day. and this proved to be true. it was a wonderful, wonderful day.

i dug a little hole in the sand for amelia to lay in, and it was perfect! she was propped up just about like she is in her car seat, and she just slept away under the umbrella. she really made no fuss at all the whole time we were out there! in my head i fastforwarded to the end of the summer when she will most likely be crawling all over the place. so i tried to really enjoy my low maintenance baby at the beach! :) here's some shots of amelia enjoying her first snooze on the sand.


sound.
asleep.
ya think she likes the beach!?

well, i KNOW these kiddos do! they went right to work diggin' and a pourin'. they loved every minute of it. except the minute where ethan poured water all over karina. and the minute where karina turned right around and poured water all over caroline. (and a part of me wanted to tell caroline to go pour water all over ethan, just to go full circle...) but they enjoyed all the other minutes. :)





after lunch in the shade, the kids had a lollipop treat. (thank you, aunt kristie, for getting the little ones!!) ethan and karina patiently licked theirs to the very end while caroline....oh, caroline... she chomped through hers in no time. just like her momma does. :)


these huge helicopters kept flying overhead,
and caroline thought they were a little too loud!


"thanks for the lollipop, mommy!"

this is caroline's new face... it's kind of a bashful-ish
"i'm so proud of what i just did but also slightly embarrassed" look.


ethan kept himself pretty busy with his sand projects, so he wasn't really concerned with humoring mommy with the camera. but i did get this one shot of my growing boy who loves his momma! pasty sunscreen face and all, isn't he a cutie?!


but caroline was a sweetheart and let me just snap away... i love taking pictures of this girl. and i love being her mommy.


it's a little too bright out here...
ahhh...much better!


well, our first trip to the beach for 2009 was a great one! ethan and caroline are at such a great age for enjoying the sand and staying busy without needing too much help. i can't wait to go back! (and next time i will remember to put sunscreen on ME and not just the kids! OUCH!!) we've had a few invitations to visit family and friends at their beach condos over the next few weeks, so we are looking forward to getting our toes back in the sand before too long! there's probably no use in vacuuming the van...

Friday, March 20, 2009

squeaky clean

amelia was so happy after her bath the other night that i couldn't resist running to get the camera. babies wrapped in hooded towels make some of my very favorite pictures... and these of amelia definitely fall in that category! look how big our baby girl is getting... i can't believe she'll be two months old on sunday!


sorry, son, mommy's already taken...

ethan tonite at dinner, commenting on the very plastic flowers decorating our table at the local pizza place...

"ooh, those are pretty flowers. mommy, when i marry you, maybe we can have those flowers."

i love that boy!

Thursday, March 19, 2009

a walk in the park

what beautiful weather we have been having lately! during the winter, i forget how wonderful this time of year is. and oh, how nice it is to be reminded!!! we met kristie and heather and kids at the park last friday morning. i ended up getting there an hour after they did because we had a really slow morning, and i decided not to stress about getting there at a certain time. (a key factor with 3 kiddos, i have learned!) so by the time we finally made it to the park, everybody was down by the bay feeding the birds. oh boy, what a fun time that was! shoes came off and little clothed bodies went a wadin' in the water! even ethan had to be told to be careful not to get soaking wet. :) he's come a long way, huh?! his favorite game was picking out just the right rocks to plop in the water. he actually ended up skipping one across the water! one lady was pretty impressed by ethan's accidental skill. :) the girls were all very concerned with rescuing the trash in the water... more concerned than they were with getting wet! by the end of the bird feeding, avery and savannah were SOAKING WET, and the rest of the kids weren't too far behind them. we dried off a little and then enjoyed a peaceful lunch followed by a lot of swinging. this park is nice and small (and shady!), so the kids were able to explore without us having to follow their every move. this park is quickly becoming my local favorite! and amelia slept through her first visit to the park...another reason that we enjoyed this park time so much! i didn't take a lot of pictures because we were too busy playing and swinging... but i did get a few of the bird's bread feast.

i finally got a shot of all five kids feeding the birds! everytime i tried to take this picture, one child would run out of bread and come running toward us. then that child would go back and another one would need more bread.... so we finally got everyone happy at one time!! (L-R: avery, caroline, ethan, savannah, karina)

i forgot my baby carrier, but thankfully, auntie k doubles as a great baby carrier! :) (as well as a hundred other great things!) amelia sure is relaxing on her first day to the park.

karina loves "baby me-wah", and it seems like everytime she wants to see her, amelia is asleep! but karina never gives up at the chance to kiss on her baby cousin.

this picture makes me laugh... look at all of them holding out their little hands. and look at caroline's little wet hiney. :)

this day sure was a breath of fresh air...literally. while we were at the park, we resolved to take a trip to the beach very soon, and we did just that! so stay tuned for more fun in the sun!

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

out and about!

we've enjoyed some beautiful spring days lately at the park and the beach. i cannot wait to finish wading through my sea of laundry so that i can share our fun outings with you!

Monday, March 16, 2009

he read my mind!

a little laugh for all you fellow chick-fil-a fans! though i completely support the fact that they're closed on sundays, i will say that there have been many sundays that we have had a hankerin' for some waffle fries!



have a great week! :)

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

how we're doing these days


i think i've sat down to finish this post about 5 times. but it doesn't cry or whine or even politely ask, "mommy, please come play with me", so it has taken the back burner. and i think that's exactly how it should be. :) my 3 squeaky wheels are now in bed, so i'm gonna give this post one more shot!

friday, march 6
amelia is doing so wonderfully these days. she is back on a great routine during the day, so we are praising the Lord for that. and for the last couple of nights, she has stretched out the time between her feedings to about 5 hours! so this mom is beginning to feel slightly rested again! hallelujah!

last week, i was just about to write a post titled, "mama said there'd be days like this", inspired by my mother singing that song after i'd called her who knows how many times in one day to lament about something... the kids fighting, amelia waking up just as i was going to lay down for a nap, the kids fighting, ethan peeing all over the bathroom floor 10 minutes before i needed to leave the house, the piles of laundry taking over the house, my kitchen floor that could not even tell you the last time it has been mopped... but because it was "one of those days", there was never time to write a post about it! and i was exhausted. i'd been waiting for amelia to go a little longer between feedings at night, and it just wasn't happening. i knew it would come, but i really just needed to sleep. in bible study last thursday (where i was trying to go when ethan peed everywhere!), one sweet lady commented, "you look tired!", and i just cried, "i AM tired!" after some tears, i really felt much better! it's amazing what one good little cry will do for you. :) those ladies really must have been praying for me for the next few days because i had a very restful weekend.

this week started off with my incredible sister-in-law taking ethan and caroline for the day! THANK YOU KRISTIE! the plan was for me to get to sleep all day, but i felt so rested by monday that i actually got some things done around the house and just enjoyed a quiet house. it's funny how easy it seemed to take care of one child... though i don't remember things feeling that easy in 2005! by lunch, my quiet house seemed a little too quiet, though. it's amazing how quickly i start to miss those kiddos. here's my crazy bunch this morning... (ethan and caroline love watching amelia under her baby gym that we borrowed from cousin karina.)


so i'm getting some rest, and i even got my kitchen floor mopped yesterday during the kids' naptime! i really can't remember the last time i gave it a good mopping. now i will say that i have one of those floors that "hides dirt", but apparently, i can't hide it from everyone. when ethan walked into the kitchen after naptime, he immediately noticed that the floor was clean. he ran to hug me and exclaimed, "mommy! did you mop the floor?! (gasp.) mommy, thank you for mopping the kitchen floor!" and he then ran to tell brian the good news. so my three year old son's biggest joy of the day was a clean kitchen floor. wow. i felt like a really bad mom at that moment. for so many reasons. but anyway, my floor is clean. and my son is happy. and his wife better know how to use the mop! :) haha.

wednesday, march 11 (but i kept thinking it was tuesday)
ok, tonite i'm really laughing at where i left off on this post last week because this morning, ethan spilled his entire bowl of cheerios and milk onto my (still somewhat) clean kitchen floor. grrrrrrrrrrrrr. but it's just a floor. and it was just an accident. and i love that boy more than my floor (well, i'd surely hope so, given the evidence of how i take care of that floor!).

so how are we doing 5 days later? well, i know why i didn't get to finish this post last weekend. because late friday night/saturday morning, amelia woke up every ninety minutes. so much for the great routine, huh?! she did ok the rest of the weekend, but by tuesday night/yesterday morning, it was obvious that she was 100% in the middle of a growth spurt. once i realized that, it made a lot of sense, and i just fed fed fed that baby girl yesterday. last night she did great, and today she was only awake to eat (another post-growth spurt indicator). i am just hoping that we are about to turn the sleeping-through-the-night corner. that would really be a wonderful thing. but as i've said before, i canNOT complain. amelia is such a good baby. she is so content when she is awake, and she is so tolerant of The Siblings. she usually does very well going to sleep on her own in her bed, and we are just incredibly blessed. but sleeping through the night would just be icing on the cute little amelia cake.

we've been loving the wonderful weather. i've even been taking the kids outside regularly! ethan and caroline are getting so good at swinging on the "big kid swings" on our swingset. we're working on pumping their legs, so hopefully, by the end of the summer, they will be self-sufficient! (just in time for amelia to want to be pushed in a baby swing!) i found another infant swing just like ours at a consignment shop, so i can keep one in the shed and easily bring it out if amelia is awake when we go outside. she loves to look around and listen to all the outside noises. i just have to be super vigilant when ethan decides to play t-ball. or soccer. or paper airplanes. here are the girls showing off the swing...


oh, speaking of the consignment shop, i have a funny story. our favorite little children's consignment shop is on our way to church, so we pass it a few times a week. evvvvverytime we pass it, ethan (and now caroline) says, "there's where we got our trains!" (super huge bag of wooden trains and track for $10!!!) and now it's also "there's where we got amelia's baby swing!" (they also do the same thing for "where we got our bunk beds" and other key locations around town.) anyway, the day i bought the swing, i also found some very nice stride rite sandals for ethan for dirt cheap. so brian's mom was commenting on them the other day and asked where he got them. ethan responded right back with the name of the store. i was kind of surprised that he actually knew the name of the store vs. "the place where we got amelia's swing and my trains". i said to ethan, "i didn't know you knew (name of store)!" and without missing a beat, he said, "i know (name of store), i know church, and i know Jesus!" (in no particular order, of course...)

i'll close with a 6 week shot of amelia. i guess i'm just gonna be a week behind on pictures-- she turns 7 weeks old tomorrow. she looks as if she's brushing up on her gang signs... in her smocked get-up. ha!


we continue to have much for which we should be thankful. God is so good, and if i end up saying that on every post, well... it still would not be enough. God uses these three little blessings everyday to draw me closer to Him and to remind me of His grace. have a wonderful weekend counting your blessings!

Saturday, March 7, 2009

5 weeks old

here are some sweet shots that i took last week of amelia at 5 weeks old. she's already changing so much! at 6 weeks old now, she is really smiling a lot...especially when she has a full tummy! i've been trying to catch her cute grin on camera, but i haven't been able to yet. so till i get a shot of that smile, these will have to do. :) i thought i'd better post these in a hurry tonite since they're already over a week old! i'll try to write more about how we're doing soon...


Sunday, March 1, 2009

my girls


caroline asks to hold amelia at least twice an hour. ("hold me-yah few minutes?!") she has already discovered the joy of the boppy pillow at 2 years old! and as you can see, amelia enjoys this girl time with her big sister. :)